mrnothersan wrote:
I'm running a personal website (development, so only me going on it)
Since it's basically for a learning experience, pick one, learn it, see what's good/bad, benchmark it, then try another one.
From your usage statement, a little bit of downtime will only effect "just you", so might as well run all the popular web engines thru their paces and see what YOU like/dislike about each one.
Or, if that's not your "thing", run Apache or Apache/nginx mix since they have the biggest market share (which may or may not matter depending what you "develop").