That's my understanding as well. However, in this case,
avodah@mikeage.net is a perfectly legitimate address, which sometimes receives spam.
The way I see it, there are three things I could be doing
1. Reject the original message since 83-64-133-130.feldbach.xdsl-line.inode.at isn't authorized to send mail from
amplitudeuoh@clipmove.com. The problem with that, of course, is that there's no good way to do that
2. Not send bounce messages if gmail rejects it. This seems like a reasonable option [as it, my server shouldn't ever bounce messages on it's own; all addresses are either forwarded or sent silently to /dev/null
3. Strip the attachment from the bounce [probably the most standards compliant thing to do].
Any suggestions for either achieving one of these goals, or another option?
[incidentally, I forward most of my email on to gmail, but not all, which is why I want to have it go via my VPS]