mdevs5531 wrote:
I'd be very happy to use a service like amazon or google, but all the ones I've looked at have rate limits in the 1000's per day, which puts me at half a year before all the mails are sent
I suppose you're talking about Amazon's cloud servers? Well, they're not meant for e-mail, period.
Amazon's flagship e-mail product is the
Simple Email Service (SES), which is priced at $0.10 per 1,000 messages, plus the usual bandwidth fees (negligible compared to the per-1,000-message sending fee, unless you send large attachments).
There are also bulk e-mail sending services such as
Mailchimp and
Postmark. I haven't personally used either of them, and they're quite a bit more expensive than Amazon, but they also come with many additional features such as customized handling of bounce messages.
Services that specialize in bulk e-mail sending are much less likely than a private server to be blocked by major ESPs.