hybinet wrote:
It's pretty easy these days to chroot user accounts and give them only SFTP access
That seems like the best option for me, I'll have to try that (not only VPS but also a linux newbie

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After installed php-apc, now when I run free -m +- buffers/cache is now 288 free, and before that it was 265, so it looks like I got 20 mb ram back

Anyway, everything works fine, my sites are loading fast, all the trouble setting everyting up is now paying off, linode is really great!
Couple more questions:
- I see that many people are using lighttpd and not apache. Whats the difference or in what situations is better to have it then apache?
- linux installation, I've chose Ubuntu 9.10, is there a difference in memory usage with some other version?