Yeah, probably not yet with those stats.
If you just want a quick instantaneous answer along those lines, another option is to use "free -m" and look for the used column without buffers/cache. For example, on one of my Linode 512 nodes (not yet rebooted since the recent plan upgrades so still essentially a Linode 360):
Code:
~$ free -m
total used free shared buffers cached
Mem: 360 345 15 0 189 108
-/+ buffers/cache: 46 313
Swap: 255 8 247
So on this node (a static web site) applications need about 50MB of memory with the remainder going towards buffers or cache. You should find that the output on your system matches your ~100MB from munin fairly well at least in steady state.
Of course, that's a snapshot, so something like munin lets you watch it over time.
-- David