Yes, I killed it

it was "now" What is kill -9 doing instead of plain kill?
To hybinet, Apache was name of process. I think it would be safe to assume if someting is runing more than 10 minutes that it wouldnt work and should be shutdown. I can kill process manually but i am not always by computer and ready to kill it if its making problems, and then server stops working and I have a real problem and i dont even know as i might be on vacation or just off somewhere. Would like to have some trigger for this kind of events, but ok I can take your advice if all of you think its not a way to go.