thanks SelfishMan the "ADdressFamily inet" did the job, "ListenAddress ::" was already commented out.
After a bit more investigating to the netstat -n truncation of the ip6 address I found an open bug report:
http://bugs.debian.org/cgi-bin/bugreport.cgi?bug=254243
For those that encounter the same thing under Debian Etch you can either:
- re-package the a patched net-tools or
- install the testing net-tools package which has the patch applied, which is what I did
I can now see the full ip6 address:
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root@node1:~# netstat -taupen | grep 22
tcp6 0 0 :::22 :::* LISTEN 0 17027 2516/sshd
tcp6 0 0 67.18.187.222:22 220.239.42.204:1918 ESTABLISHED 0 17111 2543/sshd: sharpeg
tcp6 0 52 67.18.187.222:22 220.239.42.204:1917 ESTABLISHED 0 17035 2518/sshd: sharpeg
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